Many people intentionally separate themselves from the wealthy and the influential in their midst.
Though, I quite understand that several of them behave unfriendly. Notwithstanding their are still some of them who are looking for opportunity to relate with you but because you have shut the door of your heart against them, they could not come close to you.
Myself and shola kosoko graduated from the same department in 2009, she studied sociology and I studied industrial and labour relations.
She came in as a direct entry student, the three years we spent together in class, I never for once say hi to her.
I can say i knows her but she can never say she knows me.
In one of the film she featured, she had a friend while in school, and the friend was trying to help her in the exam, he was caught and rusticated but because he got admitted through scholarship, the father is late and the mother is very poor he could not continue his education elsewhere.
He end up as a shoe maker, and one day he help shola dad when his car broke down without knowing who he was, shola dad gave him his card to see him at home, he gave him a gardener job.
Few days after, shola came in and he recognized the guy, from there he got him a better job and they eventually got married.
WHAT ARE THE LESSONS OF THIS STORY?
If shola and the guy has not been a close friend even though they met and she has capacity to help she might not help him because they were stranger.
Majority of the poor people are too egoistic in their poverty. That’s why theirs wider gap between the rich and the poor.
“Some people will never need you but you need them”
You will need some people to attain some certain height in life.
You will need some people to open some certain doors.
You will need some people who have the links that you need.
You will need some people who will refer you.
If you are networking with your kinds, you may never move out of your current states.
If Mr. nobody is networking with Mr. nobody, you will both remain a nobody.
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS MAKING THE RICH BECOMING RICHER?
The rich are becoming richer because they network with their kinds.
It’s on few occasions will you see a rich man or woman coming down to network with the poor.
The poor need to go out and network with the rich.
However, I am not telling you to give your current friends red card but you need to classify your friends into two categories:
THE GROWING FRIENDS: if you can, you can take your growing friends along to the top.
THE NON-GROWING FRIENDS: you may need to keep a normal relationship with non-growing friends.
at this moment of your life, you need to network your ways to the top, you can then come down to help your friends to move up.
Watch out for PART FOUR.
If you are blessed kindly share your testimony with me.
You can order for any of my following books:
Principles of financial freedom
Getting to the mark
School of transformation course book
Joseph Olaomo is a Transformation Coach, Inspiring speaker, Author, and Entrepreneur
Comments
Post a Comment